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Transforming Trauma into Strength and Resilience

We provide compassionate support and proven strategies to help you navigate your healing journey.

What is Trauma?

Trauma is more than just a distressing event—it is the emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical imprint left behind by experiences that overwhelm our ability to cope. These experiences can range from sudden accidents and natural disasters to prolonged exposure to abuse, neglect, or violence. Trauma does not always stem from a single event; it can be cumulative, developing over time due to repeated exposure to distressing circumstances.

The effects of trauma manifest in various ways, impacting thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Some individuals may experience flashbacks, anxiety, or emotional numbness, while others struggle with difficulties in relationships, trust, and self-worth. Trauma, if left unprocessed, often lingers in the body and mind, influencing daily life in subtle and profound ways.

Types of Trauma

  1. Acute Trauma – Stemming from a single distressing event, such as an accident or assault.
  2. Chronic Trauma – Resulting from prolonged exposure to distress, such as childhood neglect or domestic abuse.
  3. Complex Trauma – Arising from multiple traumatic events, often interpersonal in nature, impacting a person’s sense of safety and self.
  4. Developmental Trauma – Occurring in early childhood due to unmet emotional needs, abandonment, or dysfunctional caregiving environments.
  5. Secondary Trauma – Affecting those who work closely with trauma survivors, such as therapists, first responders, and caregivers.
  6. Vicarious Trauma – The indirect trauma experienced by witnessing or hearing about the suffering of others, common among caregivers and those in high-stress environments.
  7. Generational Trauma – Passed down through family lines, affecting individuals due to historical, cultural, or familial patterns of distress and suffering.
  8. Cultural Trauma – The collective trauma experienced by communities due to oppression, war, or displacement.
  9. Medical Trauma – Psychological distress resulting from serious illness, surgeries, or invasive medical procedures.
  10. Attachment Trauma – Trauma that stems from unhealthy, inconsistent, or neglectful relationships in early childhood, affecting one’s ability to form healthy attachments later in life.

The Body and Mind Connection

Trauma is not just a memory stored in the brain—it is also held within the body. Studies in neuroscience and psychology have shown that trauma can dysregulate the nervous system, keeping individuals in a state of hypervigilance or emotional shutdown. This explains why trauma survivors may experience anxiety, difficulty relaxing, or physical symptoms such as chronic pain and tension.

Healing from trauma involves re-establishing a connection between the mind and body, allowing individuals to process emotions in a healthy way and restore a sense of safety. Practices such as breathwork, meditation, and somatic therapy can aid in this reconnection process.

Case Study: The Effects of Trauma on Daily Life

Consider the case of Sarah, a trauma survivor who experienced emotional neglect in childhood. As an adult, she struggled with self-worth and avoided close relationships, fearing rejection. She often found herself in a cycle of anxiety and self-doubt. Through therapy and mindfulness practices, Sarah gradually recognized her trauma responses and learned to reframe her negative beliefs. This transformation took time, but eventually, she was able to build healthier relationships and regain her confidence.

This case illustrates how unresolved trauma can shape behaviors and emotional patterns. Healing is possible through consistent self-awareness, therapy, and self-compassion.

The Hidden Impact of Trauma

Beyond its immediate psychological effects, trauma has long-term consequences on physical health, relationships, and overall well-being. Studies suggest that unprocessed trauma increases the risk of:

  • Autoimmune disorders and chronic illnesses
  • Sleep disturbances and chronic fatigue
  • Depression, anxiety, and PTSD
  • Relationship difficulties and emotional detachment
  • Self-destructive behaviors, including addiction and unhealthy coping mechanisms

Trauma can also shape an individual’s worldview, leading to hyper-independence, fear of vulnerability, or difficulty trusting others. Understanding these hidden effects is crucial for breaking free from the cycle of pain and beginning the healing journey .

How Trauma Manifests in the Body

Trauma is not just a psychological phenomenon—it is also stored in the body. Symptoms of trauma stored in the body include:
* Chronic pain and tension
* Digestive issues
* Fatigue and sleep disturbances
* Autoimmune disorders
* Increased susceptibility to illness
* Difficulty regulating emotions
* Unexplained headaches or muscle stiffness

The Science Behind Trauma and the Brain

Research has shown that trauma alters brain function, particularly in areas such as the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex. These areas are responsible for emotional regulation, memory processing, and logical decision-making. Trauma can lead to:

  • Hyperactivity in the amygdala, resulting in heightened fear responses.
  • Shrinkage of the hippocampus, affecting memory consolidation and increasing susceptibility to stress.
  • Impaired function of the prefrontal cortex, leading to difficulty in rational thinking and impulse control.

Understanding these effects can help individuals realize that trauma responses are not personal failures but rather physiological adaptations that can be healed with time and effort.

Practical Techniques for Healing Trauma

  1. Mindfulness & Meditation – Practices that help regulate emotions and bring awareness to the present moment.
  2. Somatic Therapy – Body-centered therapies that release trauma stored in the body.
  3. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) – A structured approach that helps reframe negative thought patterns.
  4. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) – A therapy specifically designed to help individuals process traumatic memories.
  5. Journaling – Writing down emotions, thoughts, and triggers to understand patterns.
  6. Breathwork – Controlled breathing exercises that help calm the nervous system.
  7. Grounding Techniques – Simple methods such as touching an object, focusing on sounds, or deep breathing to stay present.
  8. Exposure Therapy – Gradual exposure to trauma-related triggers in a safe environment to reduce emotional distress.
  9. Building Support Systems – Connecting with trusted individuals to create emotional safety.
  10. Holistic Healing Practices – Techniques such as Reiki, acupuncture, or energy healing to restore balance.

Case Study: Trauma and Emotional Response

Sarah, a childhood trauma survivor, struggled with chronic anxiety and a fear of abandonment. Throughout her adult life, she found it difficult to maintain relationships and often experienced emotional shutdowns in moments of conflict. After seeking therapy, she discovered that her attachment trauma was influencing her behaviors. Through consistent therapy and mindfulness practices, Sarah slowly rebuilt her sense of trust and emotional regulation.

Transforming Trauma into Strength

While trauma is painful, it does not have to define the rest of one’s life. Many individuals who embark on a healing journey discover newfound resilience, deeper self-awareness, and a greater capacity for empathy. The process of healing is not about forgetting the past but about reclaiming one’s power and rewriting the narrative of one’s life.

The Role of Gratitude in Trauma Healing

Studies have shown that practicing gratitude can significantly improve mental health outcomes for trauma survivors. Keeping a gratitude journal, expressing appreciation for small wins, and focusing on positive aspects of life can help shift the brain’s focus from fear to empowerment.

Community Healing and Collective Support

Healing from trauma does not have to be a solitary journey. Many trauma survivors benefit from group therapy, support groups, and sharing their experiences with trusted communities. Collective healing environments provide validation, emotional safety, and the opportunity to learn from others.

Your Next Steps

Healing is not a linear path, and setbacks are part of the process. However, with patience, self-compassion, and the right tools, transformation is possible. If you are ready to take the next step in your healing journey, support is available. You are not alone, and healing is possible.

Schedule a free intake session to explore your healing journey.

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I went through my first spiritual awakening back in 2018 that changed my life. I learned meditation and started to question everything I “thought” about who I am. That propelled a journey of self-discovery of reading ton of books, attending workshops, working with experts in different fields, listening to seminars and going within to look for the answers.

Through that journey I let go of my painful past, dropped labels that didn’t serve, and become FREE of much of the autopilot beliefs I was operating from. From that point on, I have felt is my mission to empower other people to know that they are high vibrational beings that can become FREE of the past pain and past negative experiences.

I believe my life purpose is to raise my vibration and level of consciousness and to help others do it too. I believe that deep down, you are also on a journey of raising your vibration and that as you do, it changes the world.

My name is MILARDO and I help people expand their consciousness.

I went through my first spiritual awakening back in 2018 that changed my life. I learned meditation and started to question everything I “thought” about who I am. That propelled a journey of self-discovery of reading ton of books, attending workshops, working with experts in different fields, listening to seminars and going within to look for the answers.

Through that journey I let go of my painful past, dropped labels that didn’t serve, and become FREE of much of the autopilot beliefs I was operating from. From that point on, I have felt is my mission to empower other people to know that they are high vibrational beings that can become FREE of the past pain and past negative experiences.

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Healing coaching blends traditional coaching techniques with approaches from various healing modalities such as mindfulness, energy work, and somatic therapy. Through holistic work we look at the whole and not at the different parts that make up something. Everything is interrelated and everything is connected. It focuses on addressing emotional wounds, trauma, and limiting beliefs to facilitate personal growth and transformation. 

In my coaching sessions, you can expect to engage in reflective exercises, guided meditations, visualization techniques, and somatic practices to access and process emotions stored in the body. I will create a safe and non-judgmental environment for you to explore your inner world and identify areas for healing and growth.

I help individuals work through a wide range of issues, including past trauma, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship challenges, grief, and stress. It provides a supportive space for exploring emotions, releasing negative patterns, and fostering self-awareness.

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The timeline for seeing results in healing coaching varies depending on the complexity of your issues, your level of commitment, and the techniques used. Some clients may experience significant shifts after just a few sessions, while others may require longer-term support to achieve deeper healing.

The first treatment mostly take place online. But there are scenarios that individuals comes to the office when needed. When we are further along in the process, we can do exercises such as breathwork. These can take place in the office. The office is in Apeldoorn, The Netherlands. 

Unfortunately, it is not yet reimbursed through health insurance, which is why I offer a 50% discount on the first treatment. Every person is different. If the individual is not completely comfortable with his finances. Then discuss this and we can always look for a solution. Your well-being is more important than money.

My standard prices are €98,- ex 21% VAT. It is possible for freelancers or companies to reclaim VAT. Only temporarily I now offer a 50% discount for the first treatment. Schedule your free intake now above in the website or click here